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Author: Julian Ray
Publishing Date: Sept 2011
ISBN: 978-988-15221-2-2
Price: US$12.90
Specifications: 200pp (140mm x 210mm)

 
     
 
 

作者Julian Ray因工作關係於20多歲時從美國洛杉磯移居亞洲,並精通八國語言。現居香港,並開設貿易公司,同時亦是自我增值的巡迴講師。作者為香港亞洲獅子會之糾察。

 
 
 

CHAPTER 1: Reasons why I wrote this Book
1. My entrepreneurial passion since childhood
2. My business ventures in Japan and Hong Kong
3. I finally realized how snooty I was and that I had mostly superficial friends
4. Even the richest man cannot find real love without this essential ingredient
5. My miserable downturn
6. Rejection from those I trusted the most
7. The reason I got the cold shoulder from my friends
8. 2 sure ways to rapidly evolve into a mature man
9. Met some great people
10. Gratitude to my true friends
11. How I learned Chivalry
12. Achieved self sufficiency and improved on my EQ
13. Contrasting reactions from friends
14. Every man should have a mission in life
15. Bring value to society
16. Men who are clueless about understanding women are very frustrated men
17. Your character will determine your destiny
18. Enjoy while you learn
19. Surprising results
20. A Real Man has a charismatic character
21. Women’s complaints
22. Wisdom from older generations should be passed down
23. Simplify the complex interaction between men and women
24. Woman’s Six Senses vs. Man’s Five Senses


CHAPTER 2: Qualities that build a Real Man’s Internal Charisma
1. Patience
2. Decisiveness
3. Self Assurance
4. Confidence
5. Perseverance
6. Ambition
7. Efficiency
8. Intelligence
9. Empathy
10. Maturity
11. Integrity
12. Man’s Emotional Boundary
13. Wit helps relieve stress
14. Be happy with yourself
15. Accept your life just the way it is
16. Humour
17. The 3 Levels of Man
18. Close the Deal
19. Become a fun person to be around
20. Anxiety and Boredom
21. Be a fun conversationalist
22. Never worry about what others think of you
23. Positive Body Language
24. Improve your mind-muscle and self esteem
25. The Psychology of a Real Man


CHAPTER 3: Qualities that build a Real Man’s External Charisma
1. Experiment and try to improve your appearance
2. Dress Code
3. Hair Style
4. Sanitation
5. Diet
6. Body Odour
7. Improve your Fashion Sense
8. Cleanliness is next to Godliness
9. Smell
10. Be a Gentleman at all times


CHAPTER 4: Qualities that build a Real Man’s Leadership
1. Take responsibility for your actions
2. Improve yourself constantly
3. Be a reliable person
4. Be a Master of Conflict
5. Be independent
6. Never lose control of yourself or your emotions
7. Teach and share with others
8. Be aware of your surroundings
9. Master Mind
10. Courage
11. Keep learning and advancing every day
12. Accept rejection gracefully
13. Life isn’t Fair
14. Do not seek for approval from others
15. You are your worst enemy and also your own best friend


CHAPTER 5: Qualities that build a Real Man’s Wisdom
1. Even rich men will not find love without learning this
2. Build inter-dependant relationships
3. Become knowledgeable of your innate personality
4. The Real Man Personality vs. Other Personalities
5. Characters of a not so Real Man
6. Get rid of your bad habits
7. Look inside yourself
8. Focus on your subconscious
9. Face your emotions
10. Self Awareness
11. Never be jealous of others
12. Do not pursue a woman who is clearly not interested in you
13. Finding the right woman
14. Context vs. Content
15. Surround yourself with the best
16. Be assertive to make progress

CHAPTER 6: Qualities that build a Real Man’s Value
1. Long term fulfilment
2. Be honest and stick to your beliefs
3. Never give up your self respect
4. A Man must realize his value


CHAPTER 7: Discover Your Personality
1. Perfectionists
2. Helpers
3. Achievers
4. Romantics
5. Observers
6. Questioners
7. Adventurers
8. Asserters
9. Peacemakers


CHAPTER 8: Be Charitable with Your Wisdom


CHAPTER 9: Good Luck on Your Journey

 

 

 
   
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